Ne-Yo and his girlfriends have taken middle stage because the R&B singer is shedding his previous popularity for dishonesty, revealing he has absolutely embraced a polyamorous life-style with 4 girls. The logistics and emotional basis of his distinctive dynamic are actually public, as he mentioned his life in an ABC Information particular, Influence x Nightline: Ne-Yo: My 4 Girlfriends.
Ne-Yo, 45, made it clear within the interview that whereas titles like “polyamorous” might apply, he and his companions “don’t actually rock with the titles.” He proudly acknowledged, “I’m in a relationship with 4 lovely girls. We’re in love. We’re a group. We’re a unit.”
In response to The Jasmine Model, the 4 girls, whom he refers to as his “wives” (although none are legally married to him), are: Cristina, generally known as PB (Fairly Child); Arielle, generally known as TF (Twin Flame); Moneii, generally known as PF (Phoenix Feather); and Bri, generally known as SLS (Attractive Lil’ Somethin’).
The inspiration for this nontraditional setup stems from what Ne-Yo describes as a “very public, very ugly divorce” from his ex-wife, Crystal Renay. That messy cut up prompted a dedication to radical honesty. “I used to be married earlier than this, to at least one lady. Issues didn’t go nicely. I made my errors. We obtained divorced, lots of people obtained damage within the course of, and I instructed myself at that second I ain’t mendacity to no person about nothing ever once more,” he beforehand defined.
When forming his present “pyramid,” Ne-Yo was fully upfront along with his companions. He claims to clarify it to his companions like: “Hear, you recognize I rock with you. I completely rock with you. However it ain’t simply you.’ … ‘I additionally rock along with her, and her, and her. So what I wanna do is carry this entire factor collectively.’ When you with it, let’s rock. When you’re not, that’s cool too. No love misplaced. You go your approach and I am going mine.”
He admitted that he feels he “wasted lots of time simply being dishonest about issues,” suggesting that taking this sincere method initially “may’ve saved myself lots of headache and heartache.”
The Logistics Between Ne-Yo And His Girlfriends
The Grammy winner harassed that the association isn’t purely about intercourse. “See, folks get caught up on the sexual ingredient of it. If the one purpose you’re doing it’s for the sexual half if it, you’re sure to fail,” he suggested. As a substitute, the important thing to managing the dynamic between Ne-Yo and his girlfriends is transparency and respect, specializing in partnership over possession.
“I do partnership, not possession,” he asserted. “I don’t even need to personal you. I need a companion on this state of affairs. I don’t demand exclusivity or ask for it, nothing like that. When you supply it and I settle for, [then] there are guidelines to observe, however nothing is above a dialog so long as we’re being sincere.”
The logistics of Ne-Yo’s distinctive home state of affairs are simply as intriguing because the setup itself. All 4 companions reside with him, and to accommodate all the unit, they share a custom-made Alaskan King mattress, based on him. Ne-Yo described the huge sleeping association, noting it’s “like two California Kings subsequent to one another,” and admitted, a mattress “you gotta get … made.”
As BOSSIP reported, His public introduction of Ne-Yo’s girlfriends—Cristina, Arielle, Moneii, and Bri—got here through an Instagram publish again in March, the place he captioned the publish, “LADIES AND GENTS I PRESENT MY PYRAMID. Say one thing good or transfer on along with your life. We blissful over right here.”