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This episode recap additionally (after all) incorporates spoilers.
Once we final left our Harlem girls, Quinn was jolted awake by the sounds of Seth speaking lovingly to a different girl on the telephone, a lady he was going to see quickly. A girl with whom he ends conversations with, “I really like you.” As you’ll be able to think about, Quinn was in her WTF bag. However that WTF bag obtained a bit bit larger as soon as Seth answered her questions very overtly and truthfully.
It seems that Seth remains to be working underneath the auspices of his moral non-monogamy life-style (it has been 5 months since they first began courting) and has a complete different boo — Sabrina — that tends to his wants whereas he’s on the highway. To his credit score, Seth didn’t lie or attempt to conceal a single factor. He claims to like Quinn and desires a life along with her; he desires Quinn to be his “main accomplice.” Seth desires to offer Quinn the whole lot that she might ever need…besides monogamy. I’m certain this chapter isn’t closed…but.
Effectively, whereas Quinn is coping with her excellent man troubles, we discover out that it’s child bathe time for Camille (and Ian)! We additionally discover out that Camille goes beast mode on writing her e-book; she wants to offer me some ideas and pointers as a result of a brotha is STRUGGLING over right here making an attempt to get my proposal achieved. Camille? She’s on chapter 29…of her manuscript. Le sigh.
Anyway, curiously, Camille doesn’t desire a child bathe however all people else is all about this child bathe (and child) life. Even Ian, is stepping up majorly. I feel now is an efficient time to level out, once more, that Portia’s emotions and area on this entire situationship are nonetheless unknown. I can’t think about she’s completely happy about all of it however like, do Portia and Camille ever discuss?
I imply, Portia is ABOUT to be stepmommy over right here, you’d assume that they’d attempt to develop a relationship of some kind. Perhaps they’ve but it surely’s unclear and I really feel like THAT is the storyline I wish to see: what are Ian and Portia’s conversations like…at residence — they dwell collectively and are contemplating beginning their OWN household.
Tye and Eva appear to be going sturdy and all however a complete future fumble obtained telegraphed right here. Eva’s mom is on the town for one evening solely and asks Tye to come back to dinner to fulfill her. Tye tries to say no due to Camille’s child bathe — I actually must be calling it Camille and Ian’s child bathe — however Eva is insistent on assembly her mom (I actually like Eva) and Tye folds. Tye says these well-known final phrases that doom all relationships when pivotal moments are on the desk: “however for you, I’ll work one thing out.”
Everyone knows that by no means works out; additionally the non-committal nature of one thing as vital as assembly your boo’s mom? Come on, Tye…rattling. Spoiler alert: she fumbles it, although in odd style. Tye SHOWS UP to the restaurant for dinner however…bails. Eva (and her mom) see her do that, after all, and effectively…Eva doesn’t look like she suffers fools. Extra spoiler alert: Eva’s achieved with Tye.
Angie and Michael are at an inflection level. And admittedly, it’s one other relationship that’s form of simple to see ain’t gonna make it. And truthfully, I’m not fairly certain who’s accountable, if anyone. It’s simple to say Michael however, eh. Angie has to hold some accountability too.
So, Angie obtained rave opinions for her preview efficiency of “Ladies Journey: The Musical,” and apparently that’s all she’s been fascinated by and centered on. She’s overlooked what’s taking place in Michael’s world and over the course of the season, we now have seen him take inventory of his and Angie’s…priorities, so to talk. He’s appeared a bit controlling (suggesting that she not do an element he doesn’t really feel is worthy of her or that may derail her, with out proof) however he’s additionally been weak along with her about why he operates how he does and hasn’t gotten in her approach both.
Angie has a imaginative and prescient of what she desires, and it’s not fairly gelling with Michael’s view of what he desires. As Angie’s star rises, she has much less time for Michael and he’s selfishly (perhaps?) taking inventory of what that may imply for his or her marriage. Look, with out seeing the ultimate episode (egads!) but, I really feel fairly assured in saying that their relationship is about to sundown.

Again to our fundamental characters. Ian and Camille are bopping round like…a pair. Ian desires to get a mini-van (I really feel you, bro; I need one, too) and has his record of issues to do to get Camille’s residence in form for the newborn that’s due quickly. Their chemistry is simple. Effectively, Ian is in control of the meals and the cake…however forgot to get a cake. Have you learnt who’s a grasp with the pastries? His girlfriend, Portia.
Ian asks her to repurpose one in every of her muffins which she finally ends up bringing to the newborn bathe. Ian was operating tremendous duper late so we get some entertaining banter from Quinn’s very Caribbean mom; she’s at all times enjoyable. And when she and Ian’s aunt (thee Bevy Smith) get to speaking about sidepieces and the way males within the previous days had sufficient decency to have child mommas on the opposite facet of city, effectively, I legit laughed out loud. These two girls want a podcast.
We discover out that Ian’s girlfriend Portia and Camille don’t have a relationship as a result of as soon as Portia reveals up with the cake, the claws come out from all the women. The instant prospect of beating her down (which makes NO sense; Ian is the villain — such that there’s one) is on the desk. Portia can be AWARE that the women don’t need her there however is worried with the cake being excellent in order that they don’t have room to speak trash about her.
It was in that second I actually felt unhealthy for Portia. Ian is clearly nonetheless in love with Camille and asks his girlfriend to assist save a child bathe the place she isn’t even remotely welcomed. I can see the place that relationship goes, too. There’s no approach it could possibly survive if that’s the dynamic between the 2 girls in his life. Ian goes to should set some boundaries and, effectively, after the newborn bathe, we see that he’s incapable of doing so.
He goes again to Camille’s place to deliver stuff and whereas feeling for the newborn to kick, he almost dangers all of it for her. Whereas Portia doesn’t comprehend it, we do, after which we see bruh return residence, get in mattress along with his girl at 3 am, AND THEN textual content Camille that he’s residence and had a good time and might’t wait to do it once more.
Bruh.
Like, bruh. Come on, fam. Don’t do Portia like that. However we all know how Ian handles issues. I absolutely count on a conversational model of “my unhealthy” to happen the place the result’s that she strikes out and he and Camille can provide their love an actual shot. We will see.
Up in Harlem.

Panama Jackson is a columnist at theGrio and host of the award-winning podcast, “Pricey Tradition” on theGrio Black Podcast Community. He writes very Black issues, drinks very brown liquors, and is fairly fly for a lightweight man. His largest accomplishment to this point coincides along with his Blackest accomplishment to this point in that he obtained a telephone name from Oprah Winfrey after she learn one in every of his items (largest) however he didn’t reply the telephone as a result of the caller ID mentioned “Unknown” (Blackest).