Kia Proctor, the ex-girlfriend of Cam Newton who shares 4 youngsters with the previous NFL star, obtained candid (and fashionable) about what led to her very “public” breakup with Newton in a brand new vlog shared to her Shades of Kia YouTube channel.
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Whereas answering a sequence of questions from subscribers, Proctor who shares 4 organic youngsters with the New England Patriots alum and a daughter that Newton claims as his personal, stated she thought she and the athlete had been heading down the highway to marriage when she realized he welcomed a baby with mannequin, LaReina Shaw, in 2020.
Cam and Proctor had been courting since 2012.
“Me and my associate we separated, I’m a single mother of 5,” Proctor shared on the 7:41 minute mark of the vlog. “I used to be by no means married however the relationship, I assumed it was going in direction of marriage after which my associate on the time had an outdoor child. And he kinda wished to power it on me, and I wasn’t actually able to.”
“I imply, I don’t actually know tips on how to describe this or speak about this….He had a child outdoors of our relationship that I used to be not okay with and we weren’t married.”
Proctor Mentioned Newton Having A Youngster With Shaw Was “Heartbreaking”
The matriarch and sweetness entrepreneur was heartbroken upon discovering the information, as she believed she and Newtown shared one thing “particular.” Proctor defined that the newborn incident made her really feel she had “no selection however to go away” and transfer on.

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“I had to decide on me and my children over what he was about to place me via.”
Regardless of the infidelity that led to their unlucky breakup, Proctor praised Newton for being a great father. Moreover, she counseled Cam for his or her “wonderful co-parenting schedule,” noting that whereas it has been a “work in progress,” it continues to enhance and can hold getting higher with time.
“I really feel like do the perfect we will and we make it work for the youngsters…. I really feel like all the things all the time will get higher with time. So long as the dad and mom are good and in a great place, then the youngsters will probably be good. So, so long as they see a wholesome relationship, that’s the perfect factor we will do.”
The previous couple alternates Sundays to care for his or her youngsters. Proctor famous that this clean co-parenting association has enabled her to focus on her private profession objectives, together with launching her personal magnificence line and the Shades of Kia YouTube channel.
“I really feel like nothing is gonna maintain me again now. As a result of I’m lastly at a great place in my life now,” she added. “I did loads of therapeutic.”
Along with his 4 youngsters with Proctor, Newton has a child lady with comic Jasmin Brown, whom he has been courting since 2021.
They welcomed their daughter in March of this yr. He additionally considers Shaw’s oldest son from a earlier relationship as his personal, in addition to Proctor’s oldest daughter from her prior relationship, successfully making him a father of eight.
Cam Newton Issued An Apology To Kia Proctor In 2022
Throughout a 2022 interview on The Pivot Podcast, Newton apologized to Proctor for dishonest and “jeopardizing” their household of 5.
“My long-term girlfriend on the time, you already know, we had a household,” he stated on the time. “I harm her and I jeapordized our household at the moment. I made a mistake and I had a baby outdoors of our relationship. Coming from the place I come from, being the person who I’m, nobody will ever converse on it as a result of we obtained lots of people in excessive energy make humanistic errors, and I can actually say that I made a humanistic mistake. When Caesar Lorenzo Newton was born, I then stopped caring as a result of I solely could possibly be the perfect person who I could possibly be.”
Cam Newton And Kia Proctor Are In An Amicable Place After A Youngster Assist Battle
Again in 2020 BOSSIP solely reported that in 2019 Newton sued Proctor for paternity, joint bodily custody, and visitation for his or her 4 youngsters.
Newton admitted that he’d signed the youngsters’ start certificates, however wished DNA proof. He additionally stated he’d been voluntarily paying baby assist however requested the decide to determine a greenback quantity for assist going ahead.
However Proctor countersued Newton arguing that she ought to have full bodily custody of the youngsters as a result of she was transferring out of state and away from Newton, and given his profession within the NFL, a joint bodily custody plan could be workable. She would later go on to ask for $15K a month for baby assist and famous that she “hadn’t labored throughout their six years collectively and didn’t have a approach to assist herself.”
Cam Newton Lately Mentioned He Desires To Have Extra Children
Regardless of being busy along with his eight youngsters, the previous NFL star lately shared with movie star psychologist Dr. Cheyenne Bryant that he’s open to having extra children sooner or later. Nonetheless, he may be hesitant about marriage as a result of his “worry of dedication.”
As for Kia, she confirmed on her YouTube channel that she desires to have yet another baby, a child lady, however solely with a husband.
Watch Kia hold it elegant whereas talking her reality beneath.