Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta‘s Mendeecees Harris revealed love wasn’t a think about him staying in his marriage to Yandy Smith-Harris.
Within the April 2 episode of LHHA (Season 11, Episode 26: “Sassing Via the Snow”), Yandy went to Canada with the group (sans Mendeecees). At some extent within the journey, Yandy, 42, FaceTimed her hubby, speaking concerning the chilly climate and the way a lot she missed him. Nevertheless, Mendeecees, 45, wasn’t within the temper to candy discuss and instructed his spouse he wished a critical sit-down together with her when she returned.
He expressed his feeling that Yandy was appearing like an unbiased, single lady and neglecting her duties as a mom and spouse (one thing the 2 have mentioned beforehand).
Yandy defined how Rasheeda and Kirk endured the identical troubles that drove them to a darkish place and said she didn’t need them in the identical place. However Mendeecees said they have been already in that darkish place.
“I believed that we’re at midnight place,” Mendeeces commented. “It [has] been happening for some time now. If that is going to be, then you definitely obtained to take this critical. If not, then you definitely obtained to let it go.”
In his confessional, the 45-year-old confessed to feeling like they have been on the level the place they need to let go.
He added how their marriage dedication was “completely, 1,000%” the explanation he stayed married to her.
“This shit is meant to be endlessly, nevertheless it don’t need to be endlessly,” Mendeecees mentioned.
However, Yandy doesn’t wish to stay with out her husband.
“I really feel like letting it go will not be an possibility,” she admitted. “The considered life with out you…that’s not an possibility for me.”
Throughout her confessional, she shared how devastating it was to listen to Mendeecees’ true emotions.
Earlier than ending the decision, Mendeecees mentioned they needed to talk about some issues and attempt to work it out when she returned.
Within the April 9 episode (Season 11, Episode 29), Yandy returned, and the couple dove into their relationship woes. Mendeecees spoke on how he felt his spouse was neglecting her duties and ignoring their relationship wants by chasing her goals and dwelling her life.
Mendeecees felt ineffective as a result of Yandy was dealing with companies inside and outdoors the home and never leaning on him.
The 42-year-old said how she needed to suppress her goals and grow to be a single dad or mum throughout his incarceration. With him out, she felt she may atone for what she missed.
Mendeecees desires Yandy to decelerate and deal with their household and marriage.
“I don’t know what Mendeecee’s definition of affection is as a result of I certainly have been affected person…type,” Yandy shared in her confessional. “I’ve beloved him when it was laborious. I beloved him when some could have thought I ought to separate myself from loving him. I’ve been there, and I didn’t need to be there. Solely love may preserve me right here. That harm and minimize deep.”
